My 92-year-old grandfather told me months before he died, “Life is a con artist; you will always want what you don’t want. I have been hardworking, faithful to my wife, and a father of 8 children. At the end of my days, my mind thinks I should have been single, a bachelor, a bum, and childless. But if I had been that version of myself, I sure would like to be who I am today.”
